Ahhhh girlfriends. They love who you loved long after you're done loving them, and they hate who you hate long after you're done hating them too. It's a little akward watching them facilitating your revenge long after you've passed all the bad energy to contribute. Still, its sweet and twisted both, and it's better just to let your girlfriend go. It's saying 'I love you sister' the same way we sit together alone and hold eachother in that non-sexual way. (I'm laughing right now from that big fat lie I told...)
Girl Advise (for the boys)
When you first meet a woman, it's perfectly all right to act as though you've just met the most perfect woman of all time (just don't say right away: 'You are the most perfect woman OF ALL TIME') It's a bold beautiful move to look them deep in the eyes when they're talking as if you're diving in through the eyes, past the eye sockets, the skull, and then finding a deep soft pulsing oozing brain bottom. It feels like kissing without really kissing somehow. Like your soul is pressing against your ribcage because it's found something better and wants to believe outside of itself. Some people are better at this then others just like some people are better kissers than others. Some people just never get it at all. Eventually though, if you get it, it's everything. You might be tempted to lie with it. Do yourself a favor. Don't.
but the advise...
Do not, NOT touch this woman in any sort of familiar way if you want to see her after this one night. Not a hand on the knee, around the waist, or on the back. But, lets say you do. You touch her and can't stop. You're probably thinking, she's not stopping you, so it must be okay. Wrong. Her not stopping you does not in any way mean that she wants you to touch her like this. In fact, chances are, she's dissapointed because you just gave her the signal to never to see you after tonight.
So why doesn't she stop you? Save you both from the sad impending train wreck? Same reason you went home with that one girl, that one time, that you never told anybody about. The same.
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